Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?

The book traverses a range of emotional and mental states, from the low ebbs of grief and self-doubt to the high tides of motivation and self-awareness. Smith serves as a guide through these terrains, not only offering readers an understanding of these emotional landscapes but also equipping them with the tools to negotiate them effectively. The quest for emotional well-being is not a linear journey but a complex expedition that requires self-awareness, self-compassion, and an arsenal of coping mechanisms.

Smith introduces the complex causes of emotional states by comparing emotion to body temperature, effectively breaking down the monolithic understanding of mental health. She emphasizes that emotions and mental states are not standalone phenomena but are affected by a combination of internal and external variables. This complexity also extends to those who are in caregiving roles. The book calls attention to the delicate balance required for caregivers, noting that their mental well-being is integral to the quality of support provided.

In her role as a guide to the complex and challenging terrain of mental health, Smith offers various coping and thriving mechanisms. Techniques ranging from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) are offered as tactical equipment for this emotional journey.