When Mr. Pirzada Came to Dine

The candy motif reflects Lilia’s Coming of Age as a Second-Generation Immigrant and the loss of innocence that it entails. At the start of the story, Lilia stores all the candy she receives from Mr. Pirzada in a special box and eats one piece before bed each night. While this ritual demonstrates that she greatly treasures the treats he brings, she is simply enjoying the candy as any child would. However, once she learns about the war and the danger his family is in, she changes her nightly ritual. She lets the candy melt in her mouth and then prays for his family’s safety—despite having never prayed before or being taught how. She also forgoes brushing her teeth, worried that it will rinse the prayer away as well. This well-meaning attempt at helping Mr. Pirzada demonstrates some growth, but it is ultimately a rather childish way of dealing with the uncomfortable feelings her knowledge of the conflict gives rise to.

Once Mr. Pirzada leaves, Lilia continues the ritual until her family hears from him months later. She learns he and his family are safe and realizes she will never see him again.