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In The Tender Bar, J.R. Moehringer recounts his journey from childhood to young adulthood, shaped by his move from his abusive father and his close relationship with the men at Publicans bar in Manhasset. These men serve as surrogate father figures, deeply influencing his sense of masculinity, identity, and belonging, while Moehringer navigates his academic struggles and aspirations to become a writer. The memoir deals with themes of domestic violence and substance abuse.