The Rosie Project

Graeme Simsion

The Rosie Project

Graeme Simsion
63 pages2-hour read
Fiction
Novel
Adult
Published in 2013

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Chapters 29-32Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Content Warning: This section of the guide includes discussion of death and ableism.

Chapter 29 Summary

Rosie and Don meet to finish the DNA testing. Don considers that after this, the Father Project will be over, and he will have no reason to see her again. While Don is preparing the samples, he asks Rosie what she will do when she finds out who her father is. She says she will expose him for revenge. Don is horrified and turns off the machines, refusing to let her do something so immoral. They fight, and she says she’ll never speak to him again if he doesn’t complete the tests. He says he already figured that she wouldn’t speak to him again after the project ends because she isn’t interested in him otherwise. Rosie storms out, telling Don that he is incapable of love.


The dean enters. She has found out about Don’s unapproved (and nonexistent) DNA project. She takes Don’s lab key and tells him that if she doesn’t get the paperwork, including approval from the ethics committee, Don is fired. She does offer another solution: If he drops his complaint about Kevin Yu, the plagiarizing student, she will overlook this professional indiscretion.


The next day, Gene offers to help Don by claiming that the unethical DNA project was being conducted on behalf of the psychology department. However, all Don can think about is Rosie. He has decided that the Wife Project is over; regardless of what happens with Rosie, Don realizes he has no idea what will make him happy and that the questionnaire is a failure. Gene helps Don understand that he must be in love with Rosie.


Don’s spirits immediately improve; now that he knows he’s in love, he is motivated to “fix” what Rosie thinks is wrong with him so she will accept him as a partner. The traits in need of attention are his over-adherence to schedules and repeated violations of social protocols.

Chapter 30 Summary

Don is on comfortable ground again with because he has a new project: the Don Project. 


Don begins by getting help and instruction from Claudia. They meet a coffee shop, where Don orders coffee in a more sociable manner, rather than his more efficient (and therefore curt) way. Claudia compliments him on the subtle changes, surprised that his visit to the notoriously brusque New York has improved his social skills. However, she knows the bulk of the change can be attributed to the effect Rosie has had on him. To get an even better grasp on behavior considered acceptable, Don role-plays social scenarios with Claudia so he can practice responses. While he learns quickly, Claudia worries that changing himself too much for Rosie will lead to resentments. 


To further his emotional education, Don watches romantic movies, including some of Rosie’s favorites. In the process, he realizes that fidelity is fundamental to all successful romantic relationships. As he immediately think of Gene and Claudia, he shares this information with Gene. He says that if Gene loves Claudia, he should be willing to make sacrifices to make her happy—namely, put his research aside and be faithful. Rather than confront his behavior, Gene says, “I’ll think about it when I see you changing the habits of a lifetime” (252).


After tackling his social skills, Don addresses his rigid schedule by abandoning his standardized meals and shopping for different types of food. This is not as difficult as he had feared; in fact, he finds himself enjoying it. Don wants to share his new discoveries with Rosie. However, he is not unrealistic; he knows he will have to work hard to improve his social skills and that he may not be successful in convincing Rosie to be in a relationship with him.

Chapter 31 Summary

As he contemplates the potential loss of his job, Don decides to deal with his complaint against Kevin. He calls the student into his office and asks why he didn’t write the paper himself. After further questioning, which proves Kevin does understand the subject matter, Kevin explains he is not confident writing in English. Worried that his limited literacy might jeopardize his success, he had his tutor rewrite his paper without thinking it through. With his own recent experiences as a rule-breaker in mind, Don decides to give Kevin an additional assignment instead of expelling him. For the first time, Don puts himself in the dean’s shoes and realizes how difficult her job really is. 


Finally, Don addresses his appearance. He realizes that the real motivation behind how he dresses is that he enjoyed people thinking he was unconcerned with societal norms. Claudia helps him shop for a new wardrobe, and Don follows that up by getting new glasses and a haircut—he models himself after Gregory Peck because, back in New York, Rosie told him they shared a resemblance.


Now that the Don Project is complete, he embarks on the Rosie Project. Dressed in the style of Gregory Peck, Don goes to Rosie’s office and asks her to dinner that night. Next, he goes to Gene’s office, where he hands Gene an envelope containing an unspecified invitation and then confronts him about his unacceptable behavior. Gene tells Don that he’s one to talk, since everyone thinks Don is completely oblivious, but that is exactly Don’s point. Despite Gene’s opinion of himself, everyone else thinks he is sleazy. Don tells Gene it’s time for him to grow up and put his wife and family first; otherwise, he might lose them.

Chapter 32 Summary

Don changes into a jacket and pants in his office and schedules an appointment with Phil Jarman, Rosie’s father. Before Don has a chance to leave, the dean comes in and leads him to her office. Don believes he is going to be fired, and it suddenly triggers a memory where, mirroring the “flounder demonstration” (262), an 11-year-old Don was reprimanded for disrupting his religious studies class with too many questions. Don and the dean reach her office, where she asks whether he has an explanation for his behavior. But before he can answer, Dr. Lefebvre breezes in, carrying Don’s fake proposal, and announces that he is pledging $4 million to Don’s project. He still believes that Don’s unconventional proposal was the dean’s idea, and he tells her to Don must be on the project team, effectively saving Don’s job. Don, with his new social skills, recognizes what is going on and leaves the office to avoid embarrassing the dean by telling the truth.


Phil, a visibly intimidating man, is a physical trainer who owns his own business. He recognizes Don immediately, presumably from the photo of Don and Rosie from the faculty ball, and demands they go through with the physical assessment that was the pretext for Don’s visit. He get Don a pair of boxing gloves, then insists that Don really should try to hit him while they spar. 


Don attempts to carry out a conversation during the assessment, telling Phil that Rosie is upset with him for several reasons—of note, that he did not follow through on his promise to take her to Disneyland. He calls Rosie Phil’s stepdaughter, which shocks and angers Phil. Don throws a punch that breaks Phil’s nose and knocks him down. Phil explains that he made the Disneyland promise only once: at Rosie’s mom’s funeral. By the time he got out of rehab for his injuries from the crash, eight months later, he thought Rosie had forgotten all about the promise. Phil asserts that he tried to do his best for Rosie, but Don refuses to let Phil get up, saying, “Not until we solve the problem” (266).


With that settled, Don prepares for dinner by changing his outfit, putting an unspecified envelope into his jacket pocket, and a ring box in his pants pocket. He thinks to himself that, even if the night doesn’t go the way he hopes, he is happy with the way he has changed.

Chapters 29-32 Analysis

The misunderstandings between Rosie and Don, which begin on their last night in New York, multiply when they return home. During their fight in the lab, it’s obvious that Rosie is interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with Don. He is understandably confused since, in New York, she seemed to want a one-night-stand. But now, she seems to resent the fact that Don eliminated her as a suitable Wife Project candidate. In anger, she says that she would be in a relationship with him if he wasn’t (according to her) uptight and emotionally inept. Don is unable to process or cope with this conflicting information, and he struggles to make sense of his feelings. 


Once he realizes that he loves Rosie, Don attempts to change the personality traits that Rosie said disqualified him as a suitable mate, addressing them one by one in the Don Project. He is, in effect, hoping to become neurotypical so that he can win Rosie’s affection, seemingly oblivious to the fact that he’d already earned it. He improves his social skills, so he will no longer embarrass her in public, and he tries to become more empathetic so he can be a better partner emotionally. Finally, he improves his wardrobe and gets rid of his rigid schedule, including the repetitive meals. While Don enjoys implementing all this change, and even determines that some of his mannerisms were affectations he used to deflect attention, the narrative implies that The Power to Change is limited and that sometimes—particularly in the case of neurodivergence—it is the attitudes of others that should change, rather than the person. As Claudia warns, changing solely for someone else’s benefit can have negative consequences, even if it is done out of love. That Don is simply piecing his new personality together from external sources signals the misguided nature of the endeavor; he isn’t searching his own heart and mind to determine how he can become a better version of himself while remaining authentic and happy.


After “fixing” these aspects of himself, he feels ready to address other issues that hurt Rosie, such as her strained relationship with Phil. A lot of significant information comes to light through their conversation, namely that Rosie may have misrepresented aspects of her relationship with Phil. It’s clear that Phil cares deeply for Rosie, but in the aftermath of her mother’s death, it was hard for him to do anything that would make Rosie happy. He reveals that he went to rehab for eight months following the car accident that killed Rosie’s mother, which is implied to have shaped Rosie’s subsequent fear of abandonment. But even with this new data to process, Don feels a strong allegiance to Rosie’s emotional well-being, so he does something he hadn’t planned on: collects a DNA sample from Phil, though this won’t be revealed until the final chapter of the novel.


In these chapters, Don puts his newly obtained social and emotional skills into practice. His confrontation with Gene and his subsequent adaptability during the meeting with the dean and Dr. Lefebvre demonstrate that the efforts to increase his social IQ have worked. He correctly interprets the emotions each character displays, so he knows that his words have the desired effect on Gene and that it’s better to simply take Dr. Lefebvre’s good news than potentially make it worse by overly examining the situation. Furthermore, by confronting Phil, Don is attempting to be the caretaker of Rosie’s emotions and make her life better by solving a problem that she cannot. While this is a somewhat ill-conceived plan, that he goes to such lengths for her demonstrates the depth of his emotions and his commitment to her happiness. Though he already understands that relationships are complicated—that very issue is why he struggled to understand them in the first place—Don gains new respect for those who deal with people’s problems and issues every day.


This section ends on another suspenseful note, though it is tonally much different from the last one. As Don readies himself for the dinner date with Rosie, his intent is clearly to propose to her. This is a reminder of the unique way Don sees the world; Don and Rosie were never even dating, so proposing marriage is skipping several relationship steps often seen as vital. Even with the romantic feelings Rosie has for Don, it is hard to believe that she will accept the proposal. Perhaps even Don knows that, as he himself considers the evening’s “final objective” (266) might not be achieved.

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