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Social networking sites are an apparently indispensable resource for socializing but can intensify social scrutiny. Teens are naturally bolder online than face-to-face. Social networking sites affect self-esteem and well-being, according to studies. Teenagers can become preoccupied with how they appear to others.
In the aftermath of Columbine, the homogenization of children in American schools was enforced all the more vehemently. In fact, the killers were popular. Psychologists have observed in studies that cliques tend towards bigotry.
Blue is outraged that conformists have the most friends. He accepts his challenge from Robbins, which is to become friends with another group.
Danielle’s grades are being dragged down by her reticence to speak up. Her challenge is therefore to make an effort to talk to people outside of her immediate friendship group.
Noah wins the district swimming tournament. He accepts Robbins’ challenge to rally students across clique boundaries through a recycling drive.
The “populars” leave Whitney out of activities. She readily accepts Robbins’ challenge to mingle with other groups.
Eli’s mother pushes him to wear more fashionable clothes. His challenge is to take an improv class, but he declines, unhopeful that his social life could change.
Joy reports the girls who have been bullying her to the principal, Mr. Cruz, who calls them all into his office. Mia, one of the bullies, has herself been bullied, and promises not to “sweat” Joy again (200). Joy understands that “most bullies were hurt at some point and don’t want people to see that they’re weak” (201). The story of Rachel Scott, the first student killed in the Columbine shootings in Colorado, triggers Joy’s memory of the shooting she experienced years prior. Her challenge from Robbins is to break the ice with students of various cultures through acts of kindness.
Regan works at an LGBT youth center and plans to teach English at a school in Bangladesh. She will resign at the end of the school year. Many of Regan’s colleagues are openly unsupportive of LGBT students. Regan attempts to use the Diversity Committee to start a Gay-Straight Alliance at the school as her challenge. She meets with resistance from staff members.
Peer pressure can be extreme. Regan encounters resistance to the Gay-Straight Alliance. She gets the tattoo “SXE” to indicate her commitment to a “Straight Edge” lifestyle, one without smoking, drinking, and drugs.
Joy befriends the new girl, Ariana, who has a chaotic home life. Joy also encourages Sara, a talented artist, to pursue her dream rather than fulfilling her parents’ ideal and becoming a doctor. Joy feels stifled in America.
Meanwhile, Noah struggles to engage others outside his social circle as part of his challenge.
To the detriment of their children, parents often try to increase their children’s popularity through permissiveness around alcohol. For instance, New Hampshire junior Wade’s mother tried to change his sexual orientation. Eli introduces humor into his social repertoire, maintaining his independent ideas even when his teacher ignores him and his mother encourages him to try to fit in.
One of the chief challenges that young people face in society today is learning to navigate the world of social media. While online can forge new connections and alliances, it also fosters the development of a persona, or idealized mask, which can inhibit the expression and development of personal identity. The profound ambivalence of social groups, online or in real life, is exemplified by Regan’s experience of the Diversity Committee. Ironically, it is the school group nominally dedicated to diversity that disavows its own subconscious prejudices and is at a deeper level resistant to any real shift in the status quo. In contrast with the blind eye that is turned to bullying at Regan’s school, Joy’s principal Mr. Cruz deals directly with the bullying she reports.
What these experiences share, and what online social media exacerbates, are the misperceptions that are intrinsic to bigotry. By communicating compassionately but confidently with her bullies, Joy succeeds in diffusing their projections onto her. Meanwhile, Eli finds a constructive response in humor, which can be a powerful tool for shifting the social dynamic and fostering alliances. The corollary of bigotry and overly rigid social structures is the loss of creativity. Though Joy was also bullied in Jamaica, she feels that American society limits her creative expression. It is her foreignness, like her personal uniqueness, that empowers her to think differently and surmount the social challenges that beset her. Her decision to stay secure in her individuality and cultural background distinguish her positively as a leader, and ironically gain her real, rather than apparent, popularity among her peers. As social scientist Brené Brown has pointed out, loss of vulnerability also entails the sacrifice of authentic social bonding.
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