Me Talk Pretty One Day

David Sedaris’s Me Talk Pretty One Day is a collection of twenty-seven essays exploring the author’s childhood in North Carolina, his relationship with his family, his time living in France, and observations about American social life. The book is comprised of two sections, Part One and Part Deux in which the latter half focuses primarily on Sedaris’s time in Normandy, France. Told with sardonic humor, each chapter deploys various levels of fantasy, irony, and other narrative comedic techniques to highlight the mundanity of Sedaris’s everyday experiences while also adding relief to more grave subjects.

The first three chapters of the book take place at different points in Sedaris’s childhood. They explore the early beginnings of his fantasy life, which allows him to make sense of other people’s responses to his speech impediment and sexuality. In response to a persistent speech therapist, Sedaris concocts a spy fantasy to situate his struggles in overcoming his speech impediment. This sets the stage for future challenges to authority, especially as his sexuality eventually becomes an issue for those around him such as his homophobic music teacher. These chapters also contrast Sedaris’s creative imagination with his father’s more scientific approach to life.

Later in Part One, the author reveals some of the struggles in his early artistic career, including his drug addiction alongside the ups and downs of his visual arts practice. With humor, Sedaris discusses his errors as a young artist as well as his encounters with grief. He also reveals the loss of his mother and several beloved pets in the family. The introduction of a foul-mouthed brother and other unconventional family responses to mourning mitigates with humor some of the solemnness of the author’s subjects of death and grief.

In the last chapters of Part One, Sedaris explores some of his job struggles as an underpaid writing instructor, an underappreciated personal assistant to an eccentric heiress, and a mover. The author offers commentary about social and economic disparity, particularly in New York City where wealth distribution is prevalent. While Sedaris achieves a greater level of financial stability as an adult, these chapters articulate his preference for things that are simple and non-pretentious over something with more glamorous appeal. He much prefers hot dogs to the elaborate and expensive entrées in SoHo, and supports his sister Amy’s antics that defy conventional standards of beauty in favor of unconventional displays of humor.

Part Deux takes place primarily in France, a country that Sedaris begins exploring after meeting his partner, Hugh, who owns a second home in Normandy. The author shares his struggles with learning French, negotiating American and French customs, and finding ways of expressing his unique sense of humor in a French setting. Sedaris’s gradual acquisition of the French language and time spent in France leads him to question American sensibilities, something which he has never thought about until he has spent considerable time outside of the U.S. From his many language blunders to his awkward efforts at translation, he learns humility and gains appreciation for the ways in which new language and cultural acquisition can pleasantly surprise.

In the final two chapters of Part Deux, the author reflects on how the past converges with the present. In considering his trouble with sleeping, he reveals how alcoholism had served as an unhealthy sleep-aid for some time before his fantasies took their place as a slightly healthier way of occupying time at night. This practice, coupled with Sedaris’s father’s odd behavior of keeping and consuming food past its prime, is a comment on compulsive behaviors that one brings from the past into the present. The author suggests that his fantasies are a way of coping in his sobriety, as his father’s eating habits are creative compulsions. While these compulsions may lead to trouble at times, he gestures to how they are, in some ways, an opening to see reality and its objects in a different light.