Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns) (2011) by Mindy Kaling is a collection of personal and humorous essays about the writer’s childhood and career in Hollywood. Kaling explores a wide range of topics, including her experiences navigating television network pitch meetings, body image, thoughts on dating and relationships, and even karaoke etiquette. Kaling shows the value of meaning and joyful relationships in pursuing one’s dreams. Kaling is the recipient of the 2021 National Medal of Arts, awarded by President Joe Biden. In 2013, Kaling was named one of Time magazine’s “100 Most Influential People.” She has received two Screen Actors Guild awards, a Tony Award, and six Primetime Emmy Awards. She is best known for playing Kelly Kapoor on the NBC television show The Office, which ran for nine seasons.

This guide uses the 2011 paperback edition published by Three Rivers Press.

Summary

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? offers insight into Kaling’s pathway toward a career in media after growing up with immigrant parents in Massachusetts. As a child, Kaling was studious, cautious, and enjoyed spending time with her parents. Her work ethic and devotion to doing the right thing helped to shape her views on relationships, comedy, and fame.