How to Date a Brown Girl (Black Girl, White Girl, or Halfie)

Throughout the story, the narrator is constantly trying to present a version of himself that may or may not be exaggerated. In what ways are instructions (or “how to”) sections of the story an extension of this? To what extent are some of these prevailing ideas central to understanding the narrator’s true character?

There are multiple times when the narrator mentions and employs an assumed set of social behaviors. What are some of these behaviors? To what extent do other characters present similar behaviors around others?

The narrator hides aspects of his identity and heritage throughout most of the narrative. How does Diaz present the idea of identity in the story? How does it differ between the narrator and other characters?