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Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

Nonfiction | Autobiography / Memoir | Adult | Published in 2022

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Matthew Perry

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

Nonfiction | Autobiography / Memoir | Adult | Published in 2022
Book Details
Pages

272

Format

Autobiography / Memoir • Nonfiction

Setting

2020s

Publication Year

2022

Audience

Adult

Recommended Reading Age

18+ years

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Super Short Summary

Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing is a memoir by Matthew Perry detailing the impact of his parents' divorce on his childhood, his teenage success as a tennis player, and his rise to fame as Chandler Bing on Friends. The book explores Perry's battle with substance addiction, his fear of abandonment, and the dichotomy between the fantasy and reality of fame. The narrative is frank and darkly humorous. The book includes descriptions of substance use and addiction to drugs and alcohol.

Emotional

Dark

Inspirational

Melancholic

Hopeful

Reviews & Readership

4.2

358,666 ratings

71%

Loved it

22%

Mixed feelings

6%

Not a fan

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Review Roundup

In Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing, Matthew Perry delivers a candid memoir that resonates with authenticity. Reviewers praise his heartfelt and raw recounting of struggles with fame and addiction. However, some critiques highlight occasional disjointed narrative elements. Overall, a poignant and engaging read.

Who should read this

Who Should Read Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing?

Readers who enjoy memoirs about personal struggles and triumphs will be captivated by Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing by Matthew Perry. Fans of Wishful Drinking by Carrie Fisher and Wild by Cheryl Strayed will appreciate the candid storytelling and emotional depth in Perry's account of his life and career.

4.2

358,666 ratings

71%

Loved it

22%

Mixed feelings

6%

Not a fan

Character List

Matthew Perry

An actor and writer who details his experiences and struggles, particularly focusing on his career-defining role as Chandler Bing in Friends and his personal challenges, including his battle with addiction.

The author's mother, a former beauty pageant queen, and a successful career woman whose relationship with Perry is complicated by feelings of abandonment and the pressure he feels to make her proud.

Matthew Perry's father, a singer turned actor, who is portrayed as a remote figure in the author's early life but later becomes a supportive presence during his son's battles with addiction.

A friend and fellow actor to Matthew Perry, initially more successful, but whose decision not to take the role of Chandler Bing on Friends influences both their careers and tests their friendship.

Perry's co-stars on the sitcom Friends, who share a close, supportive bond both on and off set, playing a significant role in Perry's life and career, especially during his struggles with addiction.

A renowned actress with whom Matthew Perry shares a brief romantic relationship marked by his fear of inadequacy and abandonment, ultimately ending abruptly and regretfully.

A notable television executive and one-time romantic partner of Perry, known for both her professional achievements and her extensive personal support of him during difficult times.

Perry's assistant and best friend, formerly employed at a rehabilitation center, who provides companionship and support crucial to his sobriety, with their friendship devoid of romantic tension due to her identity as a lesbian.

Book Details
Pages

272

Format

Autobiography / Memoir • Nonfiction

Setting

2020s

Publication Year

2022

Audience

Adult

Recommended Reading Age

18+ years

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