Chop Wood Carry Water: How to Fall In Love With the Process of Becoming Great

John feels he is making progress focusing on his craft, but eventually, he grows jealous of another apprentice in the program named Katsuo, who is quicker and stronger. Then, he becomes jealous of his peers. Akira explains that as a child, he was always the slowest and that only later did he realize that he was building his own house as he slowly worked. Akira explains that comparisons are common in the West, but they result only in grief and pain. Instead, Akira advises John to focus on the positives and not compare himself.

During a rain storm, Akira explains to the apprentices the difference between skill and talent. Through a basketball and then a golf metaphor, they discuss how life prepares one for success. Just as the dimples on a golf ball enable extended flight, the traits people perceive as faults often help them in their journey. Akira refers to hardship as going up the rough side of a mountain, which makes the climber stronger. Through these images and stories, John begins to let go of comparing himself to his peers.