48 pages 1-hour read

All We Ever Wanted

Fiction | Novel | Adult | Published in 2018

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Chapters 19-25Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 19 Summary: “Nina”

After leaving Julie’s house, Nina goes to her parents’ house. They talk about Finch and Kirk for a bit, but Nina does not tell her mom about the affair or the picture. Nina tells her mom that she will be spending more time with her and her father since Finch will be leaving for college soon. When she looks around their house and smells her father’s Sloppy Joes, she asks who is coming over for dinner. They tell her that her mom ran into her ex-boyfriend Teddy at the grocery store and that he will be joining them.


Nina learns that Teddy’s ex-wife has remarried and will be moving away. Nina’s mom suggests that Nina set Teddy up with one of her “rich, divorced Nashville friends” (249). At dinner, Nina’s mom jokes about how Teddy was almost her son-in-law, and they spend the evening laughing and joking with each other. Nina thinks about how attractive he still is, and her mom says how cute they are together. Her mom also comments on how much Kirk travels. Nina tells them she is filing for divorce.

Chapter 20 Summary: “Lyla”

Lyla and Finch have sex. As they are lying on the couch naked, Polly comes into the house looking for Finch. Lyla stays downstairs. Finch goes up to talk to Polly, who asks if Lyla is there. Finch calls out to Lyla to come talk to them, and Polly cries about how much she loves Finch. She accuses Lyla of sleeping with Finch to get pregnant and tells Finch that Lyla will give him an STD.


Lyla is upset at Polly’s comments. She feels ashamed and embarrassed, even though Polly was not speaking the truth. Even after Finch gets rid of Polly and takes Lyla home, she still feels ashamed. She wonders if Polly was right to call her a “slut.”

Chapter 21 Summary: “Nina”

That night, Kirk texts Nina to ask her why she went to Bristol. She also sees a message from Melanie that Lyla has been at Nina’s house, where an argument broke out between her and Polly. Although she does not have any concrete information, Nina texts Tom about the concert and that she believes Lyla has been with Finch at her house. She tells him that he can call her but that she is out of town, and he replies that he will talk to Lyla.


Nina sits next to Teddy, and her parents try to ask what has been going on at home. Nina changes the conversation. Her mom tells Teddy how luxurious Nina’s life is. Nina is angry because she feels as though her mom may be “calling [her] out” (263).


As her parents go to bed, her mom says that there is potential for her and Teddy to get back together. Once her parents go to their room, Teddy and Nina discuss the hardships that will come with her divorce. Teddy mentions that he believes Nina broke up with him because he was not good enough. Nina tells him that she felt she was not good enough for him and about the rape. He cries and tells her that he would have been there for her. She wishes she could do things differently.

Chapter 22 Summary: “Lyla”

The next morning Lyla wakes up to Tom scrubbing their porch. When she goes outside to see what he is doing, she sees that someone has spraypainted the word “slut” across their porch. He yells at her to go back inside, and she quickly calls Finch to tell him what has happened. He says that he has not told anyone about them, and they both think Polly did it. He asks if she took a picture of it before her dad started cleaning it. When she says no, he asks if she or any of her neighbors have cameras on the porch to try to catch Polly in the act. Lyla says they do not. When Tom goes to drop off Lyla at school, he gets out of the car to talk to Walter. Lyla tries to stop him. He cuts her off and questions her about the concert and going over to Finch’s house the day prior.

Chapter 23 Summary: “Tom”

During his conversation with Walter, Tom reveals what happened to his porch. He also talks about his interactions with the Browning family, including Kirk trying to pay him off and what Nina texted him the night before. Walter asks if Lyla knows who spraypainted their porch, and Tom says that he believes Lyla is keeping it from him. Finch comes into Walter’s office and says that he believes that Polly or her friends spraypainted the porch because she had called Lyla a “slut” the day before. Tom asks him if he thinks the picture he took could have also been a catalyst. When Finch says no, Tom lunges at him. Finch quickly yells out that Polly took the picture and wrote the caption. He claims that he covered for her, but that he does not feel like her actions warrant further protection. Tom thinks about how Finch is “either more like his mother or exactly like his father,” and he plans to discover which it is (278).

Chapter 24 Summary: “Nina”

Nina wakes up early in the morning and tries to sneak out of her parents’ house. She regrets not telling Kirk about her decision to file for divorce first. Her mother is sitting at the kitchen table and asks why Nina is leaving so early. Nina has a cup of coffee with her mom before leaving.


On her way back to Nashville, Walter calls her in for an emergency meeting regarding Finch and Lyla. When she gets to the school, Tom, Finch, Polly, and her parents are all in Walter’s office. Tom fills Nina in on what has happened in her absence. Polly’s father says that Polly admitted to calling Lyla a “slut” but nothing else. Tom lashes out in anger and yells about how Lyla is being “victimized.” Walter tries to calm Tom down, but Tom demands his daughter be taken out of class. When Tom leaves the room, Finch looks at his mom and swears he did not do any of it.

Chapter 25 Summary: “Tom”

After a few minutes of waiting on Lyla, Tom lashes out at the receptionist and heads down the hall to the classrooms to get his daughter. He quickly gets stopped, and Lyla appears from around the corner. He forces her to leave the school without gathering her things, and questions why he ever allowed her to attend Windsor in the first place. Lyla cries in the car ride home, and Tom decides to take her to Bonnie’s house.


Before they get inside, Lyla asks if Tom is dating Bonnie. She looks disappointed when Bonnie opens the door and is an elderly woman. Bonnie makes them tea and shows Lyla the treehouse her father built in her backyard. She makes Lyla and Tom discuss how they are both feeling about the photo and situation. Lyla says that she wishes Tom would trust her more to make her own judgments and decisions, while Tom wishes Lyla could see why he is being so protective. After they both calm down, they decide to start accepting each other’s perspective. Bonnie gives Lyla a tour of the treehouse.

Chapters 19-25 Analysis

After Finch and Lyla have sex, Giffin furthers the conflict through Polly’s anger. Lyla does not become angry at Polly in turn, even when Polly calls her a “pathetic slut” who could “give [Finch] an STD” (259). Instead, Lyla internalizes the remarks and begins to feel as though Polly is right. Lyla feels as though she is morally wrong because of how quickly she got together with Finch after his relationship with Polly ended and after the picture of her was exposed to the school. Giffin provides signs that Finch is manipulating the situation, such as when he yells at Lyla to “come up” and places her amidst the turmoil. However, Lyla doesn’t see this. Instead, she is focused on her internal battle and navigating what she believes is right or wrong.


Giffin makes it clear that when it comes to Lyla’s emotions, the concept of morality becomes convoluted and hard to reconcile. Finch’s assertion that he and Polly “were broken up” (259) muddles the perception of truth even further, as there has not been any proof to dismantle his story.


When Tom wakes up to find “slut” written across the porch, his anger at Windsor furthers the conflict between him and Lyla. At Bonnie’s house, he and Lyla are able to distance themselves from the tumult of the situation. This allows them to further connect and build their relationship with each other. Tom reflects that he feels “the truth of [Lyla’s] words on a level deeper than [he] thought possible” (291). His recognition of her illustrates his character development. It also demonstrates Lyla’s: She is able to voice her perspective and thoughts rather than lash out at her father. With Bonnie’s help, they are able to see past their stances and connect.


Giffin emphasizes the nuances of class. Lyla tells Tom that the other students at Windsor are not all bad, but that “some of them are just [them], only with more money” (291). This implies that Lyla’s view of privilege and social class does not always align with Tom’s. Rather, she expresses a complex understanding of how morals and integrity are not always aligned with one’s economic status. In this moment, Lyla and Tom learn more from each other than they have in the past.

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